Note: This word has come to Urdu from the Turkish language. It is of the feminine gender ;-) Another form of the word is 'yalGar' which means the same but is 'purer', i.e. closer to the original word in pronunciation.
zaraa qareeb se dekhooN to cheharaa-e-qaatil
na itanii door se yalGaar kar laRaa_ii meN